"And among His signs are that He created for you from your selves mates that you may attain calm unto them and He placed between you affection and compassion. Surely in that are signs for a people who reflect". ( Sura Ar-Rum: 21.)
In the last 10 years I have given great deal of marriage advice to brothers and sisters on this site and on sites discussion board. Problems in peoples marriages arose due to choosing the wrong person to get married to and various other reasons.
To help you choose the right person to get married to I have decided to open this marriage service.
It is hoped that this marriage service will not only help brothers and sisters get married but it will in sha Allah increase their chances of geting married to the right person.
In order to assess suitability for our marriage service please answer the following questions accuratelly and honestely:
1 Full Name:
2 a Age:
3 Single, married or divorced or separated
4 Do you have children. If yes how many?
5 a Nationality:
c Country you live in presently.
6 Do you Smoke
8 a) Religion
8 b) Are you a convert, if so when did you become Muslim and what was previous religion/beliefs?
8 c) If born in Muslim family. How long have you have been practising Islam?
9) Do You Pray every day?
10) How many fasts did you do last Ramadan?
14 Work after marriage?
15 Are you willing to relocate?
14 Can you cook?
15 What do you do in your spare time?
16 What do your friends say about you?
17 Name 3 things you have done when you have become angry?
18 Dress Code outside the home
a) Do you wear a Scarf (head covering)?
b) Do you wear a Jilbab or an Abya?
c) Do you wear Niqab?
19 If you do not wear any of the above in question 18. Do you expect to adopt any of them in the future?. If so which ones?
20 What is your opinion of Hijab and Niqab.
1 Why do you want to get married?
2 Would you be ok with polygamy?
3 What role do you expect to perform as a wife?
4 What 5 things would you give or do for your husband that will make your marriage a happy one?
5 If you want to marry a convert why a convert in particular?
6 What kind of husband you want?
7 What kind of behaviour do you expect from your husband?
8 What 5 things would you want your husband to give you or to do that will make your marriage a happy one
9 Explain 5 dislikes in a potential spouse
10 What do you think about shaking hands with the opposite sex?
11 In your family/culture do men shout at their wife?
12 How would you react if your husband shouted at you?
13 What are your 3 biggest fears of marriage
14 If your husband asked you to wear niqab, jilbab, scarf which of these would you be willing to wear and which won't you be willing to wear?
15 Imagine your children are disrespectful to your husband who should be blamed for their attitude?
16 Lets suppose you are married with 2 children. You have grown out of love with your wife and this is leading to arguments and unhappiness for the past two years. Would you want divorce or stay together for the sake of the kids and sake of marriage?
17 Why should someone choose to marry you in particular?
18 If you decide to marry someone from our site and you have to meet each other. How will you meet in person
19 In your country how do husbands And wives Interact? What do they do when they are angry, What are the acceptable limits in your Family for wifes and husbands and do you agree with them. If not why?
Your family and your husbands family
1 Would you want any of your family members to live with you?
2 How would you behave towards your husbands parents?
3 What setup is acceptable for you as a wife with regards to your in laws and husbands siblings
3 If your husband's parents want to live with you what would your reaction be?
4 If your husbands wants you to take care of his old parents what will you say?
1 Who are your favourite Arab/ Asian/African Scholars
2 Who are your favourites English speaking Scholars and daees
3 Have you done any Islamic courses, if so which ones.?
Please send your answers to