Matrimony
Allah says
"And among His signs are that He created for you from your selves mates that you may attain calm unto them and He placed between you affection and compassion. Surely in that are signs for a people who reflect". ( Sura Ar-Rum: 21.)
In the last 10 years I have given great deal of marriage advice to
brothers and sisters on this site and on the sites discussion board. Problems
in peoples marriages arose due to sisters choosing the wrong person to get
married to and various other reasons.
To help you choose the right person to get married to a
marriage site is being prepared for those wishing to get
married. It will be launched soon In shaa Allah
If you looking to get married then email us and we will inform you when the site is ready. This will also mean that you are not likely to loose out on introductory offers. It will have extensive compatibility questions to help you find someone closer to what you are looking for in a spouse
Send us an email on
marriage-sisters@muslimconverts.com
If you are confused about whom to choose from that site I will have
be willing to help depending on what my work load is.
Following are some questions you can think about in the
meantime which will help you.
Work after marriage?
Are you willing to relocate?
Are you
willing to cook for your husband?
About Marriage
1 Why do you want to get married?
2 Would you be ok with polygamy?
3 What role do you expect to perform as a wife?
4 What 5 things would you give or do for your husband that will make your marriage a happy one?
5 If you want to marry a convert why a convert in particular?
6 What kind of husband you want?
7 What kind of behavior do you expect from your husband?
8 What 5 things would you want your husband to give you or to do that will make your marriage a happy one
9 Explain 5 dislikes in a potential spouse
11 In your family/culture do men shout at their wife?
12 How would you react if your husband shouted at you?
13 What are your 3 biggest fears of marriage
14 Lets suppose you are married with 2 children. You have grown out of love with your wife and this is leading to arguments and unhappiness for the past two years. Would you want divorce or stay together for the sake of the kids and sake of marriage?
15 In your country how do husbands And wives Interact? What do they do when they are angry, What are the acceptable limits in your Family for wife's and husbands and do you agree with them. If not why?
Your family and your husbands family
1 Would you want any of your family members to live with you?
2 How would you behave towards your husbands parents?
3 What setup is acceptable for you as a wife with regards to your in laws and husbands siblings
3 If your husband's parents want to live with you what would your reaction be?
4 If your husbands wants you to take care of his old parents what will you say?